4–5 Weeks Out: Organize and Declutter

• Declutter by category with kid input: keep, donate, sell, or pass‑along; let children choose a few “must‑keep” items for control and comfort.

• Sort outgrown items: donate clothing, toys, books, and sports gear; note any sentimental items to preserve or scan.

• Order packing supplies: small/medium boxes, wardrobe boxes, heavy‑duty tape, labels, bubble wrap, packing paper, zip bags, and clear bins for kids’ essentials.

• Create “Do Not Pack” zones: documents, medications, devices/chargers, comfort toys, bedtime items, and school essentials stay separate and accessible.

2–3 Weeks Out: Prep Rooms and Routines

• Pack low‑use areas first: seasonal clothes, décor, extra toys, and books; keep daily‑use items out until the final days.

• Color‑code labels by room: include child’s name, room, and priority (Open First, Week One, Later). Number boxes and keep a simple inventory.

• Photograph setups: kids’ room shelves, gaming/TV wiring, and study spaces to re‑create quickly in the new home.

• Confirm childcare or helpers: line up sitters, grandparents, or a trusted friend for packing days and moving day.

The Week Before: Comfort and Continuity

• Build each child’s “First‑Night” kit: pajamas, favorite plush/blanket, two outfits, toiletries, bedtime book, nightlight, snacks, water bottle, and school items.

• Pack a family “Go Bag”: medications, thermometers, basic first aid, wipes, sanitizer, chargers, portable battery, documents, and small cash.

• Keep routines steady: meal and sleep schedules anchor kids; plan simple, familiar dinners and protected downtime.

• Plan goodbyes: quick class announcements, playdate, photo album of friends/places, and a keepsake signature page or T‑shirt.

Moving Day: Safety and Smooth Flow

• Arrange supervision: if possible, have young kids off‑site; otherwise, set up a “safe room” with snacks, crafts, and a helper to supervise.

• Stage the home: clear paths, protect floors, prop doors safely, and cluster room‑labeled boxes near exits.

• Prioritize kids’ rooms at destination: ask the crew to unload and place children’s beds and boxes first; make beds before evening.

• Keep the Go Bag with you: do not load medications, documents, or comfort items on the truck.

School and Activity Transitions

• Confirm enrollment: double‑check start dates, bus routes, after‑care, and required forms; schedule school tours if available.

• Transfer activities: notify coaches and instructors; look for trial classes in the new area to re‑establish routine quickly.

• Social bridges: set up intro playdates via school/parent groups; help kids practice a simple self‑intro and share interests.

Emotional Check‑Ins and Support

• Daily check‑ins: a quick “rose/bud/thorn” chat (best thing, what’s ahead, toughest part) helps kids process the change.

• Memory projects: a photo book of the old home and a “new home wish list” give closure and excitement.

• Watch for stress signals: sleep changes, clinginess, or school resistance; respond with extra routine, reassurance, and small choices kids can control.

Special Notes by Age

• Toddlers/Preschool: keep nap/bedtime consistent; transition one change at a time; use picture books about moving.

• Elementary: involve them in labeling and room planning; give choices on décor and the first‑week activity.

• Tweens/Teens: include them in scheduling, school selection research, and budget‑aware room setup; respect privacy and friend time.

Quick Parent Checklists

• Documents: IDs, birth certificates, immunizations, school records, IEP/504 plans, medical/dental records, prescriptions.

• Safety: childproof kit (outlet covers, cabinet locks), temporary baby gates, basic tools, and flashlight.

• Essentials: medications, thermometers, comfort items, snacks, water bottles, device chargers, and a compact first‑aid kit.

• Home setup: beds and bedding, towels, shower curtain/liners, basic cookware, paper goods, soap, trash bags, and a multi‑tool.

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